My Head Start Story: Iris

Story submitted by: Iris, Head Start parent and Parent Voices Leader from Marin

Before I found Head Start, I was struggling. I had severe postpartum depression and anxiety. I was constantly scrambling for child care for my two-year old daughter Lulu—calling sisters, cousins, neighbors—just to be able to go to work. Some days, people would bring Lulu to my job crying, and I felt like I was failing as a mother. I was exhausted, ashamed, and overwhelmed. It got so bad that I started making plans to end my life. I just couldn’t see a way forward.

Then, I got a miracle call from Community Action Marin—they had a spot for Lulu in their Early Head Start program. That phone call saved my life. Literally.

At first, I was scared to let go, but within a week, Lulu was running into class with her little backpack. Her teachers, Ms. Marilyn and Ms. Brenda, became like second mothers to her. She calls them “mama” sometimes. That’s how safe and loved she feels.

Today, Lulu is thriving. She knows over 50 different animals, she’s learning how to handle her emotions, and she’s growing into a kind, curious little girl. I’m so proud of her—and for the first time, I’m proud of myself too. Head Start helped me believe that I’m a good mom. That we both deserve to dream big.

Now, I’m working full time, taking classes on weekends, and I serve as Chair of the Parent Leadership Committee at her school. That’s what Head Start makes possible.